It has been a long time since I have been in here. My boys are 7 now, so we are a long time removed from the NICU time. Aaron and Connor were 31 weekers and spent 3 weeks in the NICU. I remember the guilt I carried for a long time due to their struggles. It was so hard. That is gone now, but it took a long time. The painful memories though will always be there and sometimes they rear their ugly heads. Once again this week it happened. A Mom who is about 34 weeks along or so complaining and saying how she wants the baby out now. I get that. Trust me. Than other Moms start to cheer her on to have the baby now. They say they will pray he is born soon, or give her advice on what to do to induce labor. Everytime it happens, I get a bit upset. I eventually ruin the mood by saying something about having had preemies and that she needs to try to make it through for them. I don't know why it upsets me still. Don't these women realize the dangers? I would never want anyone to go through what we all went through. Anyway, I rarely ever vent here on TS, but I needed to let that out and I know you guys would understand.