Hi, I'm Cindy. Mom to Logan 3-29-96, Lori and Lucas 12-7-99. I haven't posted to any boards in several years. I went back to work when the twins were 4. I also homeschool. DH passed away Dec 23. The oldest understands what happened and as some angry problems that we are talking through. THe twins i don't think really know what has happened yet. Is this something that will come in time or what?